I was scanning the news sites this morning and saw an article that made me think a little more about this country. This actually happens quite a bit with me, but this morning I decided to write something down. Maybe it is the extra hour of sleep last night. Anyway, in Ohio a man shot at a couple of teens who were trying to deface his McCain/ Palin sign in his front yard. His is the only one on the street where he lives that has a McCain/Palin sign, and the teens were african american. Apparently, this is not the first time the teens have vandalized his political signs this year. One of the boys was hit in the arm.
What got me thinking is how far we are from living the idea of the "Land of the free, and the home of the brave", and "All men are created equal". Here in California, Proposition 8 is the big news. If you vote yes you define marriage as ONLY between and man and a woman. A no vote allows same sex marriages to remain legal in CA. There are so many things about Prop that has me frustrated. But the main point is that one group of people are trying to deny another group of people from having certain rights, and preventing them from a pursuit of happiness. And much of the case against same sex marriage is based on religious beliefs.
Now, we have freedom of speech and freedom of religion here in the United States of America. What I see so often is one group of people wanting to secure their freedoms at the expense of another group. It could be with regards to religion, sex, money, land, etc. But one group is almost always trying to gain "power" by limiting another group's "power". As if somehow one group has a more just cause or more of a right to have x,y or z than another group. I believe that if here in America, people could recognize that they are able to say what they do, and believe in what they do because they live in America, AND that everyone else has that same right, AND they kept this in mind at all times, this would be a much better country.
Voltaire is attributed with saying, "I may not agree with what you have to say, but I will fight to the death for your right to say it". What if people kept that in mind while also trying first to understand, then to be understood, when it came to dealing with those who think differently. Imagine if our political leaders actually sat down and talked about things by trying to first understand what the other person really meant. And while doing that, actually listened to the other person, rather than partially listened and meanwhile plotted their response.
Imagine if the amount of time and effort people spend trying to prove other people wrong, was instead put into trying to actually solve problems. Wally Minto once said, "Saying someone else is wrong, does not make you right. It just makes you wrong in the other person's eyes". People seem to be more interested in being attached to the problem, or concept, than actually finding a solution. Many years ago, I learned a very powerful idea. Don't be attached to how you think things should be. Sometimes, another way IS better. It would be a great day if our political, business, and religious leaders started with the end in mind. Not the end of the world, but with the idea that they should all be doing everything they can do to create situations that love all children of all species for all time. PERIOD. And they need to keep the idea that their actions will affect people 7 generations from now. If people could stop always trying to be correct, and work towards helping ALL people in this country so that would could manifest a true land of the free, home of the brave and allow, and even encourage all people to develop liberty, happiness, and sustainable abundant growth.